Chapter 3: Everyday Life and Plans · Lesson 14
Ending a Conversation in Kikuyu
Say goodbye in Kikuyu: Thiĩ wega, Tigwo wega, Ũkome wega and other polite ways to end a conversation and leave.
🎯 Lesson Goal
By the end of this lesson, learners will be able to use simple, natural Kikuyu to end an everyday conversation politely. Learners will be able to:
- Say goodbye.
- Say “see you later.”
- Say “see you tomorrow.”
- Say they have to leave.
- Say they will talk later.
- Wish someone well.
- Say good night.
- Thank someone for their time.
🎯 Lesson Introduction
Knowing how to start a conversation is not enough. In Kikuyu communities, how you finish a conversation matters just as much, because a warm and respectful goodbye shows good manners and leaves the other person with a good feeling. In this lesson you will learn the simple, natural phrases people use to end a conversation politely.
You will also reuse what you learned in earlier lessons: the future structures from Lesson 13 (for “we will see each other later”) and the words for time and for “I have”. You will practise these in situations such as:
- You need to go – saying you must leave.
- You have a meeting – giving a simple reason.
- You are going home – leaving at the end of the day.
- The conversation is finished – thanking the person for their time.
- You will see the person later – saying when you will meet or talk again.
- It is nighttime – saying good night.
🗣️ Useful Parting Expressions
Learn these 12 expressions. Kikuyu does not always match English phrase for phrase, so learn each one as a whole.
| English | Kikuyu | Usage |
|---|---|---|
| Goodbye | Thiĩ wega. | Said to the person who is leaving. It means “Go well.” |
| See you later | Nĩtũkoonana thuthaini. | Said when you will meet again the same day or soon after. |
| See you tomorrow | Nĩtũkoonana rũciũ. | Said when you will meet the next day. |
| We will talk later | Nĩtũkaaria thuthaini. | Said when you will speak again, for example by phone. |
| Stay well | Tigwo na wega. | Said by the person who is leaving, to the one who is staying. |
| Have a good day | Mũthenya mwega. | A friendly wish during the day. |
| Good night | Ũkome wega. | Said at night. It means “Sleep well.” |
| I have to go | Nĩ njagĩrĩrũo nĩ gũthiĩ. | Said when you must leave. It means “I am supposed to go.” |
| I don’t have time today | Ndirĩ ihinda ũmũthĩ. | Said politely when you are busy. |
| Nice to see you | Nĩ ngenete gũkuona. | Said when you meet or part from someone you are happy to see. |
| Thank you for your time | Ngatho nĩ ihinda rĩaku. | Said at the end of a polite or formal conversation. |
| I have a meeting | Nĩ ndĩ mũcemanio. | Said as a simple reason for leaving. |
🗣️ When to Use Each Expression
Grouping the expressions by situation helps you know when to use them, not just what they mean.
When leaving
- Nĩ njagĩrĩrũo nĩ gũthiĩ. – I have to go.
- Nĩ ndĩ mũcemanio. – I have a meeting.
- Ndirĩ ihinda ũmũthĩ. – I don’t have time today.
- Tigwo na wega. – Stay well.
- Thiĩ wega. – Goodbye (go well).
When you will see the person again
- Nĩtũkoonana thuthaini. – See you later.
- Nĩtũkoonana rũciũ. – See you tomorrow.
- Nĩtũkaaria thuthaini. – We will talk later.
At night
- Ũkome wega. – Good night.
When ending a polite or formal conversation
- Nĩ ngenete gũkuona. – Nice to see you.
- Ngatho nĩ ihinda rĩaku. – Thank you for your time.
- Mũthenya mwega. – Have a good day.
🗣️ Example Sentences
| Kikuyu | English |
|---|---|
| Nĩ njagĩrĩrũo nĩ gũthiĩ. | I have to go. |
| Nĩtũkoonana thuthaini. | I will see you later. (We will see each other later.) |
| Nĩtũkaaria thuthaini. | We will talk later. |
| Nĩ ndĩ mũcemanio. | I have a meeting. |
| Ndirĩ ihinda ũmũthĩ. | I don’t have time today. |
| Mũthenya mwega. | Have a good day. |
| Ũkome wega. | Good night. |
| Ngatho nĩ ihinda rĩaku. | Thank you for your time. |
💬 Example Conversation
Two friends finish a conversation.
🧩 Grammar / Language Structure
Only the structures that are most useful for ending a conversation are explained here.
| Idea | Kikuyu structure | Example |
|---|---|---|
| I have to go | Nĩ njagĩrĩrũo nĩ gũthiĩ | Nĩ njagĩrĩrũo nĩ gũthiĩ. (I have to go.) For “I am going now”, use the Lesson 13 marker for today: Nĩngũthiĩ. |
| I will see you later | Nĩ + tũ + ka + oonana + time | Nĩtũkoonana thuthaini. (We will see each other later.) |
| We will talk later | Nĩ + tũ + ka + aria + time | Nĩtũkaaria thuthaini. (We will talk later.) |
| I have a meeting | Nĩ ndĩ + noun | Nĩ ndĩ mũcemanio. (I have a meeting.) |
| I don’t have time | Ndirĩ + noun | Ndirĩ ihinda ũmũthĩ. (I don’t have time today.) |
Notes
- Nĩ njagĩrĩrũo nĩ gũthiĩ means “I am supposed to go” (I have to go). For the past, say Nĩ ndagĩrĩrũo nĩ gũthiĩ = “I was supposed to go”.
- The future sentences use the same structure as Lesson 13: Nĩ + subject marker + future marker + verb. Here the subject is tũ (we).
- Nĩ ndĩ means “I have”. The noun follows directly, with no extra word in between.
- Ndirĩ means “I do not have”. It is the negative of Nĩ ndĩ.
- Time words such as thuthaini (later), rũciũ (tomorrow) and ũmũthĩ (today) go at the end of the sentence.
🧩 Pattern Recognition
Kikuyu structure: Nĩtũkoonana + [time]
= We will see each other [time].
Substitutions
- Nĩtũkoonana thuthaini. → See you later.
- Nĩtũkoonana rũciũ. → See you tomorrow.
- Nĩtũkoonana wiki ĩgooka. → See you next week.
📚 Vocabulary
These are the key words from the lesson.
| English | Kikuyu | English | Kikuyu |
|---|---|---|---|
| Later | thuthaini | Go / leave | gũthiĩ |
| Tomorrow | rũciũ | Talk | kwaria |
| Day | mũthenya | See | kũona |
| Night | ũtukũ | Good / well | wega |
| Time | ihinda | Okay | nĩ wega |
| Meeting | mũcemanio |
✍️ Short Speaking Practice
Create a 4–5 sentence goodbye conversation and say it aloud in Kikuyu. Use the structure guide below and choose your own reason and time.
| Step | What to say | Structure guide |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Say you have to leave. | Nĩ njagĩrĩrũo nĩ gũthiĩ. |
| 2 | Give a simple reason. | Nĩ ndĩ + [noun]. |
| 3 | Say you will see or talk later. | Nĩtũkoonana + [time]. |
| 4 | Wish the person well. | Mũthenya + ______ . |
| 5 | Say goodbye. | [Tigwo na wega / Thiĩ wega]. |
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